Laaaaa

So after meeting with a few potentials, and getting some interesting gifts, I mentioned my interest in the sugar world to my boyfriend and he was not ok with it.  At all.  Like called it degrading and prostitution and even brought up the "what would your parents think if they were to find out" line.
So unfortunately, or maybe fortunately?  I'm not even going to pretend that I'm looking for anything right now.  I'm still very interested though, and maybe in the future.  But for now, I'm a one man type of woman.  But more on my absolutely booorrrrriinnnng and dreadful potential meetings.  After meeting this one guy once, I realized no amount of money would be enough for me to go to dinner with him again.  He was just very whiney and kept bragging about himself and saying how everyone is doing him wrong because he's so amazing and deserves better.  Maybe trying to justify being on SA? Either way, thank god I had a glass of wine before meeting him, there is no way I could have sat through the entire ordeal without a buzz.  I'm not a mean person, and I try to be especially polite when I meet someone new, but if I had gone in without (alcoholic) ammo, I think I would have excused myself to the ladies room, aaaaand then run off.  I did fantasize about just up and running for a bit, but that's not the type of person I am and he knew who I was... and I was breaking in a pair of new (heeled) boots.

I've been talking to a couple potentials.  One in particular seems very promising.  He's young, would only want to meet a couple times a month because he travels here for work, and enjoys travelling and would most likely want me to fly occasionally. We haven't exchanged pictures yet, and he has tactfully avoided answering any questions that may give me enough information to figure out who he is.  He is very intelligent and keeps people at arms length.  From what I can tell, he was most likely treated poorly in the past, especially by women.  I'm guessing this is why he is interested in the sugar bowl, and why he is so cautious with anything that may reveal something about himself.  He even told me that he was testing me. that sentence in itself tells me I will have to work very hard to gain his trust and make a sugar relationship work.
I think he is also interested in sugar dating because he expects that everyone he meets now is only interested in his money and is only trying to take advantage of him.  This way he can categorize people with ease.

I am now casually dating someone. And lets just say that the first time I spent the night, we broke his bed.  I know I'm not supposed to take anything men say in bed seriously, but it still weirds me out when they say, "I love you."  I mean here I am, between your legs, going down on you, and then you just blurt that out?! Cue me stopping for a moment and just staring, before reminding myself that I should just take it as a compliment to my oral skills.  How do people deal with this though?
I know my oral skills are admirable, (thank you porn!!) but I'm really not all that experienced and I don't feel that I am at the level to have guys constantly yelling sweet nothings and convulsing under my grip.  Maybe I should write a 'blow by blow guide' since it seems most women are severely lacking in the oral department... which surprises me because it's really not that difficult to do, and honestly, I love giving head.

Back...?

So I might possibly be back on my sugar hunt.  Not sure, I took a break for awhile because I was about to be a bit more well known, and I didn't feel comfortable not being completely anonymous.  But I have decided to postpone that foray, which leaves me open for another dip into the sugar bowl.  I've been talking with some potentials, three of them seem like genuine possibilities.  Again, it really depends on my comfort level though.  So I may take this slow, or not at all.
So toodles for now.

"A well dressed man is to women, what lingerie is to men"

A man who can dress himself is sooo sexy

Yum

Can I also just say that I love how men want to be objectified and want women to look at them like a hunk of meat.  I mean, women hate that but jeeze, a good looking man in a well fitted suit, wow.

Sugar Wishlist

Tom Ford Sunglasses 

Rebecca Minkoff Morning After bag

Celine Phantom Ghost bag

Chanel

Chanel

Louis Vuitton Hat Box

Giuseppe Zanotti (not necessarily these)

Burberry Quilted Jacket

Duffel Coat

Burberry

Louboutin

Hermes Birkin bag

Audi R8

5/18/2012

Why don't you take me for a ride ;)
The sugar bowl is a turbulent mistress.  One day there are no new potentials, and the next, well I'm having trouble keeping them straight.

I know there are protocols that a sugar baby is supposed to do to verify a potential before meeting him, and to ensure safety, but I'm not exactly sure how to tailor those to each of my situations.  The nice thing about potentials from your area, you can meet them the next day, the bad thing about potentials from your area, you can meet them the next day.  As in suddenly the 'getting to know you' pre-meet phase is sped up and the guys want to meet the day after first contacting you.  Normally I would insist on a few more correspondence over an extended amount of time, but the gifts this guy is offering for meeting for a drink (in a place of my choice, so of course it would be in a crowded place where I feel comfortable) are very very tempting.  Something tells me he's genuine in his offer, especially since the gifts he's offering aren't completely exorbitant.  However I'm also inclined to believe that he won't be good on his offer.  Either way, should make for an interesting experience.