Laaaaa

So after meeting with a few potentials, and getting some interesting gifts, I mentioned my interest in the sugar world to my boyfriend and he was not ok with it.  At all.  Like called it degrading and prostitution and even brought up the "what would your parents think if they were to find out" line.
So unfortunately, or maybe fortunately?  I'm not even going to pretend that I'm looking for anything right now.  I'm still very interested though, and maybe in the future.  But for now, I'm a one man type of woman.  But more on my absolutely booorrrrriinnnng and dreadful potential meetings.  After meeting this one guy once, I realized no amount of money would be enough for me to go to dinner with him again.  He was just very whiney and kept bragging about himself and saying how everyone is doing him wrong because he's so amazing and deserves better.  Maybe trying to justify being on SA? Either way, thank god I had a glass of wine before meeting him, there is no way I could have sat through the entire ordeal without a buzz.  I'm not a mean person, and I try to be especially polite when I meet someone new, but if I had gone in without (alcoholic) ammo, I think I would have excused myself to the ladies room, aaaaand then run off.  I did fantasize about just up and running for a bit, but that's not the type of person I am and he knew who I was... and I was breaking in a pair of new (heeled) boots.

I've been talking to a couple potentials.  One in particular seems very promising.  He's young, would only want to meet a couple times a month because he travels here for work, and enjoys travelling and would most likely want me to fly occasionally. We haven't exchanged pictures yet, and he has tactfully avoided answering any questions that may give me enough information to figure out who he is.  He is very intelligent and keeps people at arms length.  From what I can tell, he was most likely treated poorly in the past, especially by women.  I'm guessing this is why he is interested in the sugar bowl, and why he is so cautious with anything that may reveal something about himself.  He even told me that he was testing me. that sentence in itself tells me I will have to work very hard to gain his trust and make a sugar relationship work.
I think he is also interested in sugar dating because he expects that everyone he meets now is only interested in his money and is only trying to take advantage of him.  This way he can categorize people with ease.