January 16, 2012

Update 1/16/12

I DO.  Just kidding.  But in all honesty, who proposes after reading a profile and not even knowing the girl's name?  Did I mention we'd never talked before... and that he'd never seen a picture of me?  Stop sending me all of your accomplishments and telling how much you like what I've written, I'm not interested, I'm creeped the fuck out!!!
Don't want him to try and put a ring on it

January 14, 2012

Word of the day: Fatuous

Meaning: Silly, foolish, inane, or asinine especially in an unconscious manner
An example would be when a potential SD sent me an email saying, "hahaha" "no one is that hot."  Before I could respond, he blocked me.  What purpose does that serve?  Also, I don't mention being hot or even have a face shot on my profile, nice going genius.  I'm guessing he couldn't help it, but I wanted to teach him how to be a civil human being.  But since he blocked me, he didn't really give me a chance.  So, doing my due diligence to the entire community, I blocked him and reported his sorry ass.
Oh look, a jackass

January 7, 2012

Update: 1/7/12

      I've had a lot of luck in the sugar bowl so far... considering how short a time I have been a member.  I've got to say, it is a HUGE ego boost getting so many profile views and messages in such a short span of time.  Not to mention that I've got to blush when someone tells me they joined the site after reading my profile, just to talk to me.   A little freaky too,  I mean what if I'm great online but am actually misrepresenting myself and they're disappointed when they meet me in person?  What if my profile is great but when we start an actual conversation back and forth they're not into me anymore?  All these what ifs have me questioning why I'm doing this.  What if I'm not cut out to be a sugar baby...

     That being said, who offers a couple thousand and a weekend trip across the country just so they can meet you!?!  Sound suspicious and way too good to be true?  Agreed.  Which is what I told him... and then he blocked me.  I never said I would be opposed to it after a bit of back and forth, so this affirms my evaluation that it was probably a bogus offer or he was looking for an escort.
My body is worth more than this
     Through weeding out all the offers, I've been able to find a couple men who I am talking to and who seem to be rather promising.  I know this process takes time but hopefully everything works out.

January 4, 2012

Officially in the Market


      I just made my first foray into the sugar bowl.  I'm proud of myself for working up the courage to put myself out there and really just not be so passive.  This is something I told myself I would do for a while now so to actually have done it I feel a great sense of accomplishment... I also feel a great sense of anxiety.
Officially a Sugar Baby
     I've put a profile up, given my statistics, a brief peek into who I am and what I'm looking for.  Perhaps I should be more specific as to what I'm willing and unwilling to do... my first few messages have been from older married men who are looking for physically intimate relationships.  What do ya expect, men think with their dicks and the only thought that can hold their attention for more than five seconds is S E X.
     I'm kidding... But not really.  This is what I expected for the most part, I mean the site seems to be geared towards money for sex + chemistry.  This is going to make it more difficult for me to find what I'm looking for, as well as getting the information about relationships and men and women's relationships.  I am also interested in the dynamic of sex and how what is acceptable has evolved, but unfortunately unless I am willing to share a bed with someone, the data that I gather might be severely limited.  Oh well, this is more just to satisfy my own curiosity, I'll save the real investigating and documenting for my dissertation.
     Now all that's left is to choose and upload a photo...

 

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